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Blame vs. Self-Responsibility

Blame vs. Self-Responsibility

An excerpt from my Forgiveness and Shadow book

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Michelle Wadleigh
Jun 19, 2025
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There is a secret weapon you have, right where you are, that has the ability to cause change in your life. It is not easy or obvious; however, once embraced and engaged, it will empower you toward change like nothing else will—SELF-RESPONSIBILITY.

Realizing where you are responsible for the experiences in your life—without blaming yourself—is akin to one of those highly skilled pool players who know how to hit the cue ball with just the right spin, then watch as it navigates its way through the balls on the table with laser accuracy.

No kidding. Shifting your emotional habits from blame and fault-finding to taking responsibility will leave you feeling confident and empowered to make change.

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